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Cake day: July 9th, 2023

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  • if you do it deliberately it’s no different to any other weapon.

    Of course but at least there’s the possibility of it being an accident. Absent other proof, such as that possession of a manifesto, you can quite possibly get away with it

    On the other hand there’s no way to spin as an accident that you walked up behind someone and shot them






  • Or isn’t the other half of that …… if you have a toxic personality and wish to change that, there may be no single fix but to pay more attention to many small habits contributing to that toxicity.

    This whole conversation reminds me of the similar one many years ago, about crude jokes and pictures/calendars in the workplace. The dominant population said exactly the same things. However now we’re all more professional and work is much less toxic, not just for women, minorities, people with different preferences, but also less toxic for us white male heteros as well. We all won that one






  • people looking for something in their sphere of knowledge to be offended about so they can feel like they are part of “a movement”

    I always thought it was just people looking for something in their sphere of influence that they could do to make a difference, no matter how small.

    The computing world is known for being hostile toward most out-groups, and I’ll welcome any effort to change that, no matter how small and how silly it seems. The real change needs to be in the people but perhaps being cognizant of such details will help remind us all to be more open and welcoming